The first step if you didn’t already know, is to have an attractive online dating profile photo to catch attention in the first place.Without a great photo the chances are your username won’t even matter.As someone who has been an online dating coach since 2003, I’d venture to guess that I’ve not only seen more usernames than just about anyone on the planet, but I’ve written more of them as well.Why do I think that usernames make a difference, when everyone knows that it’s all about the profile and photo?Creating your online dating username is not something you should do hastily.Your username is essentially your online personal brand!You’ve been around the block a couple times and know it’s important to write customized messages to each person.
A great username is a differentiator – a unique brand name – something that completely sets you apart from every other person on a dating site.If you consider your online dating profile to be your personal advertising tool in the dating world, your username is your brand’s mission statement.Creating your username is actually the second most important step to finding and attracting your ideal partner online.It has become socially accepted to find love online and nowadays one in three married couples have met online.Even with the tremendous growth in dating sites one-third of online users have never been on a date If you want to be in a relationship, this article will teach you how make your profile more attractive and memorable—leading to more dates.And when your ideal partner is scrolling through hundreds of names – Sally102, Jen NYC1, Lawyer Gal – a great username can be the very reason that someone contacts you. And you become convinced that usernames don’t matter. In my opinion, a username should be a pun or a play on words. Wine Not – for the wine aficionado Lady Go Go – for the world traveler Bach To Bach – for the classical music enthusiast Tender Legal – for the soft-hearted lawyer See the common thread?Most people take one of two wrong tacks when coming up with an online dating username: 1) Putting ZERO thought into it: Bill10247, Claire T, Ally Cat 2) Putting minimal thought into it, using a literal description: Tall Doctor, Gorgeous Goddess, Fun2Be Around The problem with these efforts, of course, is not that they’re “bad”, but rather that they’re BORING. All of them are plays off of real names, idioms or catchphrases, which is why they evoke smiles from readers.Men are quite visual and they’re instantly attracted to women based on what they finds physically attractive.After interviewing over 60,000 single men and women over the years there’s a few common things I can say men really find attractive in women.In Finding the One Online, I give you 7 hours of audio, a 180 page transcript, a 35 page workbook – and tips on everything from choosing the right site, to writing a compelling online dating profile, to taking the right photos, to flirting effectively via email so that every single person will want to meet you in person. What’s the most memorable username you’ve ever seen on a dating site?I’m quite sure our readers are not going to copy them for their own personal usage. The most memorable (in a good way) were a Blond Moment, Polyglotapus, and Toe_Tap_N.Sure, having the perfect name on your profile never outright guarantees success.But a sexy username that really stands out will give you a big head start in the right direction.I will show you how to create an attention-grabbing, unique username that represents you and a matching mantra to help you stand out in the crowd.