It is unfortunate that so many people join dating sites but so few put a fair effort into writing a really good profile that makes them stand out from thousands of other users.
I am not sure why people go through the trouble of signing up and filling all those questionnaires and then post a profile that looks like a copy of any other neutral, boring, profile full of cliches and types.
What makes any female dating profile great is the fact that it stands out from the rest of the profiles on any given online dating site. It’s not generic, neutral and overly politically correct.
If you are ever going to attract a quality man online, you must understand that men are extremely visual when it comes to attraction.The perfect photo gallery consists of three critical components: 1.It highlights your best external features in ways that are classy and appealing to men. It tells a visual story about your life, passions, and hobbies, the same way the written section of your profile does. It avoids any red flags that are off-putting to men.These include over-sexualized pictures, an abundance of selfies, photos that are unattractive, etc. But you do need to reveal your best self and tell the right story.If you don’t get this perfect, you will never optimize your online success.I commented in parentheses throughout the profiles below what I thought of them and why: I gave this profile a passing grade because while it’s not great, nothing about it makes it terrible.“I have been in the ——- area for a few years now and always looking to meet new people. I enjoy meeting new people and going to new places.Before I met my current boyfriend—full disclosure: it was offline—I had an amazing run on Ok Cupid, where I was able to attract a lot of men who fit my criteria almost perfectly.With so many fish in the scummy pond that is Los Angeles, how did I make my profile stand out from every other cute blonde actress/writer out there? Heed my wisdom, and you too could be fielding offers from potential men of your dreams.(Disclaimer: I cannot guarantee these tips will prevent your first date from being fantastically awkward.This little sentence was my profile's golden ticket.It attracted men who also lived in my neighborhood, men who like outdoor activities, men who are into fitness, men who like dogs, men who were thinking about rescuing dogs themselves, men who enjoy watching girls run in shorts, men who like Lamill, etc.(This first sentence says nothing eye-catching about the woman and is very bland, and boring). (still, nothing thought provoking or attractive) I am very spontaneous and I love the outdoors, watching movies, dancing, and traveling. (Finally something somewhat interesting that she says about herself).(Another cliché statement that is being used by thousands of other women) A great date can be staying at home with a movie and popcorn, or a night on the town. I made myself a promise a few years ago to take a vacation somewhere new, out of state, every year. Well, that is a little about me if you are interested say hello and we will chat. ” *********************** This profile gets a higher grade because it reflects on the writer’s character and her personality.Being specific about my interests was a key reason I had such a good response to my profile.