He reads a lot of science fiction and watches Star Trek (). ”“Oh…well, currently he works as a server, but he took a lot of astronomy classes in high school. I know if you gave him a chance you’d realize he’s the perfect fit! If this situation were to play out in real life, the poor girl would get laughed out of the restaurant, or you’d be wondering in what level of delusion she currently lives. It’s like they’re trying to justify a 2-star hotel for being a 2-star hotel.
Just because you, I, and everyone else on Earth might have the “potential” to become an astronaut doesn’t mean we’re going to be one. While they may not use the word “potential,” they’ll justify actions, behaviors, or nuances that most of us would find alarming (more on that in a second). Two-star hotels are supposed to have clean sheets, HBO, locks on the door, and a shower that works.
Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.
I even tried it when my boyfriend and I took a short break, and I found it was painstakingly difficult and more complicated than my experience dating an older guy. The texting games (How long should I wait to text him back? It’s exhausting), the fear of commitment that plagues most twentysomethings, and the simple fact that most guys my age aren’t as emotionally mature as I am.
Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.
I know this firsthand, as I’m 25 years old, and I’ve been dating an older guy nearly 15 years my senior for almost four years.
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