We texted back and forth a few times, all was well and good. Last Friday, I asked her what days she would be I didnt know this was cheating until i saw how much it hurt him So my boyfriend and I have been together 8 months.It's been pretty close to perfect over all until last weekend.and even when we have sex, it's not just sex more like romantic connection.I knew for sure that he's been seeing only me, because I've been seeing quiet often and if we don't see, he always texted and called during evening time..
I know he wants a family, as I do, because he told me and so did our mutual friend. I'm posting on here because I just saw that he updated his online dating profile.we talked about the site before and he told me it's not a big deal that I shouldn't worry about it. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! If you want to be completely exclusive with someone before having sex, that discussion should happen before one person gets his/her feelings hurt. Ladies, It's a lot less stressful to ask for monogamy before you do the deed. Obviously we got back together or we won't be married now. Maybe he's looking because you haven't asked for an exclusive relationship.Perhaps he's been hoping for that but not getting the signals from you that would encourage him to suggest it.And i know in my gut that he's totally worth that fair shot. If you're not going to bring it up, you're probably going to be waiting a while for him to.And the fact that we;re sleeping together certainly complicates things. he logs onto the dating site almost every day and 2. I'm inclined to agree with the view that he should bring up exclusivity, but at a certain point - and i don't know when this is - i want to know how he feels about me. Not saying he doesn't like you, but it doesn't sound like he likes you as much as you like him.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. What more you who is sexually active with this guy.This is one of those things the OP should talk about with the guy. This is the 2nd thread I have seen where women are sleeping with a man and have no idea the status of the relationship. Tell him you saw him still active online that's what my husband told me then broke up with me.Since college I've either been married or in a long term relationship.So dating is a whole new arena for me and I get very confused and upset very easily. I guess b/c I'm used to being in a relationship - not to dating. We have a phenomenal time together: he makes me laugh, we can talk about all sorts of things, he doesn't seem like a some of the children I've dated in the past.He may be thinking you don't want one, and he may as well keep looking, expecting that you may dump him.It could also be that as time goes on, he's seeing things about you that make him question the wisdom of a deeper commitment.I just feel sad because he's been acting like he started to really develop feelings for me and he even randomly sends 'love' texts..