As the title implies, I’ll be writing about what it’s like being in a gay relationship and dating a Japanese guy.
Of course, I don’t see him as my “Japanese guy”, he’s just “my guy”, but nevertheless, the cultures we were born into do have a hand in shaping who we are and the ways in which we interact with each other.
Growing up in Japan my parents were really strict and so I didn’t get an opportunity to start going on dates until after I graduated from high school.
I did have a Japanese boyfriend but I ended things with him to go to school in California.
It is common that only the male has to pay to participate.
I LIKE TO GO ON LONG RIDES ON MY MOTORCYCLE, I ALSO LOVE THE BEACH AND KICKIN IT WITH MY BROS.
Emails are exchanged between members through a central server, ensuring email addresses remain private.
Mail clubs are used in various ways, the most common being for dating, friend searching, or to find sex partners.
Or read peoples’ emotions where pretty much no-one wears their heart on their sleeve?
If you’ve read my post Expat and Gay in Japan: An Introduction, you’ll remember that there are two main ways that gay men meet in Japan: at bars or online. It’s a sign of the times, as LGBT people often do not live openly here.
If you’re in Japan, the easiest way to access the gay world is by using a smartphone application.
When I first moved America to attend college, I was nervous about starting a life in a new country because I wasn’t sure how quickly I would be able to adapt to the new culture.
Even though it had been my dream to live in America, I was very excited but nervous at the same time.