You'll see how your date-to-be gets along with others, and you'll get some good clues about what to expect from them.

If you can't hang out in a group before your first date, try to talk on the phone before you make plans to go out.

Then at the end of the date, if the sparks aren't flying, you aren't obliged to accept their offer of transportation.

Alcohol impairs judgment - something you'll need in spades when getting to know someone new.

(As in, not at one your apartments.) This just adds an additional layer of security, especially if you only met once in person or haven't actually met at all yet.

Be prepared for the unexpected: You might need a ride home, some extra cash or a way to bail if your date is a dud.

Although you can gather a lot of info about someone via text and email, there's nothing like hearing a guy's voice and engaging in some back and forth banter to feel him out.

Ask lots of questions to be sure that the person you're meeting is who they claimed to be online.

Trust your instincts: If something doesn't seem right about the person, do not share your contact information and leave the situation immediately. Even if it's a little annoying, let your mom, dad or another adult know when you’re going out.