Research has found that 85 percent of cheating starts amongst coworkers, with friends and neighbors not too far behind., "People may actually set it up so the spouse or partner find out.Whether it's lipstick on the collar or emails left open on the family computer, we leave our fingerprints everywhere.
It might read something like this: 'My wife and I have been married for two years.I always believed that I was the only man to ever sleep with my wife. Now I feel as if my relationship has been cheapened. Is the fact that she told me this her way of saying she loves me?I still love my wife dearly, but I find myself just a bit jealous now. I have slept with other women, but those encounters were before I ever met my wife. Dear Alan, How you feel is perfectly understandable.Among women who stated that they were actively cheating, 57 percent reported feeling love for their affair partner, while only 27 percent of the men said they felt love for their mistress.This type of information furthers the conclusion that women who cheat are much more likely than men to be seeking an emotional bond, and that they may in fact feel such a bond even if their affair partner does not. Recently, my wife admitted to me that she had had premarital sex with three other men while we were dating.Needless to say, this disclosure has made me feel hurt and a little insecure. Am I wrong in feeling hurt that my wife cheated on me during our courtship?Oftentimes, it's a cry to say 'I need to get help.' Some people make it obvious because they want to stop but don't know how."Well then.I guess we can’t all live with being conniving and deceitful forever, now can we? While there may not be a clinical definition of what constitutes a cheater, the fact is that cheaters exist and they cause far more damage than it's usually worth.Whether you consider cheating as sex or simply a kiss, no matter what the parameters of your relationship, a betrayal is a betrayal.And let’s face it, our societal distaste and astonishment over this particular activity may be a bit... (Sex outside a primary relationship, if the relationship is “open” and the rules are followed, does not qualify as cheating.) Interestingly, the reasons men and women engage in relationship infidelity are often quite different, with each gender’s motivations generally paralleling our basic understanding of male and female sexuality.In short, women are usually interested in sex that includes (or at least hints at) some sort of emotional or relationship connection, while men are typically seeking a purely objectified sexual experience.Spinning the Bottle Women are profoundly sensual and sexual creatures, just as much as men.